I can so easily go into a pity-party mode but I struggle against that and refuse to give in and feel sorry for myself. There's always someone else worse off than me - lots of someones as a matter of fact. You're an R.N. so you know that. I'm a retired Marriage & Family therapist, drug & alcohol counselor, teacher, wife, sister, mother, grandmother and friend. Hope some of this has helped. Keep in touch.
That is what I have been doing and it has helped me a lot. I really hope it helps you too.......